Wednesday 10 March 2010

Curve ball.

No doubt many a priest has faced a complicated or perhaps a trick question from time to time from a member of his congregation. Never mind … it’s part of their job I suppose.

Remember that Jesus faced many a curve-ball by His opponents trying to catch Him out.

Father Ignatius is no exception.

He was visiting one of his parishioners in hospital the other day and quite unexpectedly came the curve-ball. It wasn’t meant in a malicious way at all; but more as a cry of help from a tired old body.

“You know Father,” said the patient lying in his hospital bed, “this is the third time this year that I’ve landed in hospital. It’s one check-up after another … and these wretched doctors can’t find what’s wrong with me!

“I sometimes think that God has it in for me.

“Do you think he loves all people the same? Because I can’t see it myself. Here I am in hospital yet again … whilst others are OK and walking out there freely.

“I think He has favorites and He looks after them better than others.

“What do you think Father; does God love every one the same?”

“No.” said Father Ignatius firmly.

The patient laughed.

“Now there’s a surprise … I thought you’d give me a lot of platitudes about us all being equal in the eyes of God; we’re all His children, and He loves us all the same … and yet you agree with me. Bravo Father Ignatius. So God does not love us the same. He has His favorites.”

“I did not say that,” replied the priest sitting by his friend’s bedside.

“Explain yourself then,” said the patient jovially.

“God does love us all,” continued Father Ignatius, “and His love has no favors towards one individual as opposed to the next. He loves us all equally in the sense that He created us all and He loves us even though we might sin and distance ourselves from Him.

“Yet His love is not the same towards everyone.”

“How so …” asked the patient with a glint of humor in his eyes.

“He loves each one of us according to our needs,” said Father Ignatius gently, “like an earthly parent would do.

“You have three children Fred; and I’m sure you love all three of them. You have no favorites.”

Fred nodded silently.

“However,” continued Father Ignatius, “let us imagine two of your children were very bright and would one day follow in your footsteps and manage your business. Whilst the third is perhaps less business minded, not very academic, and interested in doing his own thing … you’d still love him would you not?”

“Yes, of course. You know that Father!” said Fred sitting up in his bed.

“I know you would … but let’s take the analogy a little further. Suppose for instance one of your children had been born with an incurable illness … you would not love him any more, or any less than the other two; would you? You’d love them all the same but differently. If you see what I mean.”

“I think I do …” said the man with a smile.

“God loves all of us according to our needs.

“For example, some people are born very bright, and are well educated whilst others are not.

“I see them in church every Sunday. Some of our parishioners are well versed about religion and their walk with the Lord; whilst others, through a variety of circumstances, perhaps related to their background and up-bringing, are poorer in spirit. Their Faith and knowledge of the Lord is not as advanced as say, a theologian.

“Sure they believe and love the Lord; but their spirituality is simpler compared to others’. Because that’s all they know; that’s all they are able to comprehend.

“They love God, and pray as simply as they’ve been taught; and they try to obey His Word as best they can.

“Does God love them any the less than say an educated priest, a bishop or cardinal who have studied incessantly and are, supposedly, more pious?”

Fred laughed heartily at the mention of more pious clergy.

“I suppose not … He must love them all the same amount,” said Fred.

“Exactly … He loves them the same amount; but differently … each according to their need.

“And one more thing …” continued Father Ignatius, “He expects more from those who are educated and should know better.

“To those who have been given much, more is expected of them.

“So the educated clergy are expected to set a particularly good example to those they are meant to guide to Heaven … so I’d better watch out I suppose.”

Fred smiled as a nurse approached and interrupted the discussion.

“I have the results of your tests, Mr Temple,” she said indicating a private conversation.

“Oh don’t mind him …” chuckled Fred, “he’s a priest. He can always give me the last Sacrament before you dispatch me off!”

“Well sir … you are a little anemic and you need a lot of rest. It’s nothing serious and we’ll have you on your feet and out of here in no time” she said.

“That’s great … thank you” replied Fred as the nurse left.

“You see Fred,” said Father Ignatius, “God does love you differently. He obviously thought you needed to listen to a private sermon.

“One to one personal attention. You can’t have better than that!”


  1. Wonderful post Victor, once again, it was like I was in the hospital room sitting watching and listening to Father! You do have a knack of bringing stories to life!
    As for my particular need of God's Love, I think He loves me with a great deal of patience added.........

  2. Hi Victor
    Thanks for another excellent story with a good lesson within! You really are brilliant! Thanks and God bless you.

  3. Hello Shadowlands and Breadgirl,

    Thank you so much for your kind comments. I'm very grateful.

    God does love each one of us according to our special needs; and yes ... He does need a lot of patience with me too. He has assigned my Guardian Angel to work overtime looking after me.

    God bless you Shadowlands and Breadgirl.

  4. Thanks for the post Victor. Amazingly I got a curve ball like this just last night. I wish I had read your thoughts beforehand.

  5. Victor, I loved this story! The man might have only had anemia but what if he had been dying, Father Ignatius' words would have been the last he heard and what beautiful words they were. I think this is how God loves people, too. That is why we should never compare ourselves to others, God sees us individually.

    My guardian angel is a hard worker, too :)

  6. Curve balls are hard to hit

    The wise priest gave a very good answer.

  7. Great insights! I like the analogy to loving our children differently.

  8. Hi Redemptoristpreacher,

    Yes, I'm sure priests get many such questions. I've asked a few myself of our priests over the years; but not always got a satisfactory answer. Actually, my next story is about a question I've raised many times with various priests. I'd be interested in your thoughts.

    Hi Mary,

    You're right. We are loved as individuals rather than a collective. I've been asking Him for some special love for a while now; for something special I need. But He keeps me waiting. Here's hoping.

    Hello Old Geezer,

    A true answer indeed from Fr Ignatius. Individual love on a one-to-one basis.

    Thank you all for writing in. I really appreciate your thoughts and comments. May God bless you always and love you accordingly.

  9. Hello Sarah,

    Yes, we all do it don't we. We love our children differently; but the same amount.

    God bless you Sarah.

  10. Great comments here.
    He loves each one differently, yes. I'm grateful for that.

  11. Hello Maryellen,

    Aren't we glad that He loves us differently.

    It's great to see you here; I hope you're keeping well.

    God bless.



God bless you.