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UBI CARITAS ET AMOR. DEUS IBI EST.
Thursday, 9 October 2025
It's me again ...

Wednesday, 8 October 2025
A Micro Call

Tuesday, 7 October 2025
Transient
Life is transient. It only lasts for a short time.
Yesterday I bought a tub of ice cream. It did not last long. It was transient.
Lots of things are transient.
Your beautiful house for instance ... Transient. Sooner or later you'll move somewhere else, or you will pass on, and the house is yours no more.
Your car ... Transient. It will not last for ever.
Your clothes ... Transient. They will soon be out of fashion and you'll grow out of them - literally so.
Potatoes, carrots and beetroot ... Transient. They either get eaten or they rot away.
I am sure you can think of other things that are transient. Write them down in the comments box below.
Some things are permanent. They last and stay for ever and ever.
Can you think of any?
I'm off to buy a tub of ice cream - transient flavour!

Monday, 6 October 2025
How may I help you?
Me: Oh hi ... I'd like to book a room in a good hotel in Aberdeen for about a week.
TAL: Certainly Sir, when will that be?
Me: Now, right now ...
TAL: You'd like a room starting today, Sir?
Me: No ... no ... I'd like to book the room right now.
TAL: I understand ... and when would you like to stay in Aberdeen?
Me: Next month ... the week starting the 12th. I'll be staying for the whole week.
TAL: Do you have a preference of hotel Sir?
Me: No ... I don't know Aberdeen that well. I want a good hotel, not just a bed and breakfast.
TAL: Yes Sir. I have one available which I am sure will be suitable. May I have your name and address please Sir? ... ... ... And a telephone number where we can contact you? ... ... ... Thank you Sir. Will you require a single or a double bed room?
Me: Oh double bed ... a large bed. And make sure there's a TV too.
TAL: Yes Sir ... all rooms have a TV, telephone, Internet access, as well as adjoining bathroom and several other facilities. I'll be sending you a hotel brochure Sir. Meanwhile, I need a name for the other guest staying with you, Sir. Will that be Mrs M...?
Me: No ... no ... my wife will not be with me.
TAL: So it's just you, Sir?
Me: No ... me and Maurice.
TAL: Maurice ... That's the other guest ... May I have Maurice's surname please Sir?
Me: Just Maurice ... he has no surname ... Just Maurice and I will be staying for a week.
TAL: I understand Sir ... That's a double room for a week commencing the 12th of next month for yourself and Maurice. Will there be anything else Sir?
Me: Eh ... yes ... does the hotel have room service? Can we order beakfast and other meals to be delivered to our room? We'd rather stay in the room most of the time.
TAL: Yes Sir. There will be a menue in your room and you can phone your order which will be delivered at any time day or night. Some guests prefer to have a meal at all hours, like two in the morning, for example. This hotel will deliver any meal you wish to your room at any time for you and Maurice to enjoy.
Me: That sounds great ... One more thing. Will they also deliver bones?
TAL: Bones, Sir?
Me: Yes... raw bones, for Maurice.
TAL: I don't understand Sir.
Me: Maurice prefers raw bones before his performance.
TAL: I still don't understand Sir.
Me: We're in Aberdeen for the sheep dog trials. You know ... like in the film Babe, the pig who wanted to be a sheep dog. Maurice is my sheep dog. We're coming incognito. We'll enter the trials in the last possible moment. That's why we'll stay in the hotel room for as long as possible. Maurice is a champion sheepdog, and any news of his entrance in the show will affect the betting odds, you see.
TAL: Yes Sir ... I see clearly now ... (deep breath) ... I understand.

Sunday, 5 October 2025
Unequal Rewards in Heaven
The good thing about hopping from one Blog to another on the Internet is that I learn something new everyday - well almost!
The problem though, is to know whether what I have learnt is true, or just someone's opinion.
For example, I learnt the other day that when we get to Heaven our
"rewards" will not be the same, but will be commensurate with how well
we responded to God's grace when here on earth.
I'll admit this confused me somewhat. I never realised there were
rewards as such in Heaven. I thought that once there that was reward
enough; if reward is the right word to use in this context.
I doubt very much that if Heaven was a mansion with many rooms, some
Saint or other would have the top penthouse apartment facing whatever
one faces when looking out of Heaven's window, and I would have a dingy
cupboard space somewhere deep in the bowels of said mansion.
Have any of you heard of the notion of unequal rewards in Heaven?
I understand this was at one time Catholic dogma originating from the Council of Florence many years ago.
I asked a priest about it. Here's what he wrote:
"The Council of Florence was in the 15th century. One of the most important principles in the study of theology, sacred scripture and church history (including the general councils) is that we always seek to understand them within the context of their own time.
The visualisation of Heaven as some kind of an hierarchical body was very common in the middle ages, for the simple reason that the whole of society worked in that way. They had no concept of social mobility or equality as we would have these days, and it would’ve seemed unthinkable to them that people in Heaven would be as it were outside of their own social circle!
We almost certainly are not bound to believe that there is any kind of hierarchical or social structure in Heaven. What we are promised is that each and every one of us will have all that is necessary for our personal bliss."
So there you have it; it is no longer Catholic belief that there's a hierarchy in Heaven amongst those souls there.
But how about your Church and your beliefs?
Have you ever heard about unequal rewards in Heaven?

Saturday, 4 October 2025
The Book of Life
Have you ever wondered, what if ... what if the whole of your life is just a book. You do not actually exist, but you are a character in a book, and there is someone out there reading all about you and your life. Whatever you do, or did, in life, from the moment you are born, is written in this book which is being read right now.
"And (your name) took the dog for a walk as usual starting from the park and right into town where he/she bought some tobacco for his pipe/some lip stick to match the colour of her new shoes!"
Just imagine for a moment the whole of your past life. As far back as you can remember. All the good things you did, and the bad things too, are all written down in this book which is being read by someone. All your kindness and generosity towards others, all the spiteful hateful things you have done, all the hurts and all the pains that you have caused, or have been done to you, and all the good times you enjoyed. They are all written down in this book.
If this were so; what kind of book yours would be?
A scientific one? "And (your name) spent most of his/her life studying the reproductive system of the cockroach, and was the first one to discover that they can be taught to walk in a single file to the tune of "Happy Birthday".
Or a romantic book. "As they sat down on the warm grass for a picnic he admired her long blonde hair blowing in the wind, and ran after it before it got entangled in the bushes".
Or maybe a financial book. "(Your name) had a head for figures and became very wealthy at an early age with the aid of an electronic abacus and by inheriting a fortune".
A fantasy book perhaps. "(Your name) woke up early and ran to the forest before the trees got there, only to discover that someone had stolen the river because it had totally disappeared."
Or would it be a horror book recording all your wrongdoings and unhappiness you have caused to others?
Think about it for a moment. If whoever is reading your book was asked to write a review about it; what would He say?
For make no mistake about it ... now is the time to make sure that your Book of Life has a happy ending and a good review too.

Friday, 3 October 2025
Our neighourhood
Our neighbours a few doors down have a new dog. It's as big as a lion at least. Not as big as a hippo or a rhino or elephant; but just about the size of a lion. You remember 101 Dalmatians? Well it's the size between a dalmatian and a lion. Only they were cartoon characters and white with black spots. This dog is bigger than a dalmatian and is the colour of a lion.
A friend of ours who lives down the street told us that their daughter came from school the other day by bus and she said the neighbours had a lion as a pet.
Her parents told her that she know full well it is not a lion and it is wrong to tell lies. It is a sin. They told her to go to her room and pray to God and ask Him to forgive her.
Ten minutes later she came down. They asked her whether she prayed to God. She said, "Yes I did and He said He often mistakes that dog for a lion Himself!"

Thursday, 2 October 2025
Humour Time
"One day, you will be able to tell your grandkids, I survived the Great Toilet Paper Shortage of 2020."
"You're not fat, you're just... easier to see."
"Not in jail, not in a mental hospital, not in a grave - I say I'm having a very good day."
"I started out with nothing... I still have most of it."
"The quickest way to double your money is to fold it over and put it back in your pocket."
"The problem with stealing quotes off the Internet is you never know if they are genuine."
They say marriages are made in Heaven. But so is thunder and lightning.
He was so narrow-minded; he could see through a keyhole with both eyes.
Few women admit their age. Few men act it.
We live in an era of smart phones and stupid people.
A man who correctly guesses a woman’s age may be smart, but he’s not very bright.
There's no point in being so open-minded that your brains fall out.
I wouldn’t say he’s very old, but when he was a boy, the Dead Sea was only sick.
A thief broke into my house last night looking for money. So I got up and searched with him.
How long a minute is depends on what side of the bathroom door you're on.
As one door closes another opens outwards and hits you in the face.

Wednesday, 1 October 2025
One Liners to remember
You are unique and one of a kind in inducing boredom
Your life can be what you want it to be as long as you leave me alone
Stop, Listen and then Act the fool
Within you are so many answers, all wrong
Make Timely Decisions some other time
Do not compare yourself with others; they are better than you
Life is full of choices; one of them is to keep your distance from me
What you don't like, others may also not like; I don't like you
Your thoughts are things; so keep them to yourself
Remember that a little everyday will get you nowhere
Rome was not built in a day; because I was not the building contractor
To thine own self be true; boring as you are
That which does not kill us makes us stronger; except diarrhoea
Be the change you wish to see in the world; like clean underwear
Breathe in courage, breathe out wind, break wind often
This too shall pass, with a good laxative
Hold your head up ... ... ...

Tuesday, 30 September 2025
Share my Thoughts
I was sitting there in front of the TV. There was nothing on except dust on the screen. When I mentioned it to my wife she threw a dust cloth at me and gave me the silent treatment. I closed my eyes and started thinking, or continued thinking ... I seem to be doing it all the time these days.
We'd been to a restaurant the previous evening and we had calamari. That's squid not octopus.
I thought, if I were an octopus I'd be able to slap eight stupid people at a time. Or hug one person tenderly.
There are plenty of stupid people these days. I wish we could export stupidity and make a fortune.
My train of thoughts moved on from octopus to slugs. Do you realise that a slug is a naked snail? Why do people eat snails and not slugs? What's the difference with a bit of garlic sauce? With some vegetables on the side.
If you were to sit in a hot bath with a lot of carrots, peas and other vegetables would you be in a right stew, I wonder?
What is the difference between a stew and a hot pot. Or a casserole?
What is the difference between a pot and a pan?
Do people go to nudist camps to air their differences?
How did Adam and Eve know that they were naked? And how did they know which bits to cover? What if they had covered their elbows or knees? Can you imagine ... if they had covered their knees, today we would all be going round naked with knee-high socks. What a spectacle that would make!
And how about that snake? If I were naked outdoors and met a talking snake I'd be afraid he might bite my bottom, not engage in a conversation with him.
Why does my mind jump from one subject to another, sometimes related sometimes totally unrelated? Like the sky for instance. You can see the sun and the stars. They are things hanging up there. So are clouds. But what is the sky?
Is it a thing, or a reflection of the earth, the oceans, or whatever else? If it is a reflection, then what is it reflected on? Is there a mirror up there in outer space reflecting the seas and oceans?
I think it is time for me to have another drink of whisky.
And it is time for you to invite friends to join Time for Reflections. I am told it is a great Blog.

Monday, 29 September 2025
Have you noticed Lazarus?
“There was a rich man who was dressed in purple and fine linen and lived in luxury every day. At his gate was laid a beggar named Lazarus, covered with sores and longing to eat what fell from the rich man’s table. Even the dogs came and licked his sores.
“The time came when the beggar died and the angels carried him to Abraham’s side. The rich man also died and was buried. In hell, where he was in torment, he looked up and saw Abraham far away, with Lazarus by his side. So he called to him, ‘Father Abraham, have pity on me and send Lazarus to dip the tip of his finger in water and cool my tongue, because I am in agony in this fire.’
“But Abraham replied, ‘Son, remember that in your lifetime you received your good things, while Lazarus received bad things, but now he is comforted here and you are in agony. And besides all this, between us and you a great chasm has been fixed, so that those who want to go from here to you cannot, nor can anyone cross over from there to us.’ Luke 16:19-31.
Let us get one thing clear from the start about this parable. Jesus is not talking against riches and being rich. There is nothing wrong in working hard and getting a fortune and living well even.
In this parable Jesus is condemning indifference. Not caring of what and who is around you. In this story Lazarus was a poor beggar at the rich man's gate; yet the rich man did not even care about him. He must have seen him umpteen times as he got in and out and yet he ignored him.
Sideline Note: The name Lazarus is a Latinized version of the Greek name Lazaros, which is derived from the Hebrew name Eleazar (אלעזר) and means "God has helped" or "God helps". So in this parable Jesus is hinting strongly that the poor man will be helped by God.
Another thing to note is that Abraham, to whom Lazarus was taken, was himself a very rich man. In today's modern terms the man would have been a billionaire. Those hearing this parable would have understood this. Jesus was not against wealth, (like Abraham's), but was condemning the rich man's attitude towards the poor man at his gate.
Have we got a Lazarus at our gate? Someone we have noticed and don't much care about?
No matter whether we are materially rich, or well off in other ways like talents, spare time, good health, education, or whatever else; there is always someone who would benefit from our good fortune if only we shared it with them.
We don't have to look too far. Lazarus is there just beside you.

Sunday, 28 September 2025
Prayers please ...
Just before He was arrested, Jesus prayed for His disciples. Then He prayed for us – yes, you and me. He said:
“I pray not only for them, (the disciples), but also for those who
believe in me because of their message. I pray that they may all be one.
Father! May they be in us, just as you are in me and I am in you. May
they be one, so that the world will believe that you sent me.” John 17:
20-21.
Does anyone think that they pray too much? That perhaps they are giving God a headache? That with over 7 billion peoples on earth yours seem to be the most prayers in His in-tray to deal with? That He is spending 99% of His time listening to you rather than the other people on earth? That perhaps you should let up a bit and pray less?
God never gets tired of hearing our prayers. Whether they are one's we have learnt like the Lord's Prayer, or just conversations and lists of demands or requests, God is always listening. He likes to hear from us; just like any good parent likes to hear from their children and how they are doing in life. He knows how we're doing, of course; but He likes to hear from us as well.
He also likes to hear us praying for others. Prayers are the greatest gifts we can give each other. It shows generosity of spirit, it shows caring, and it shows love on our part for someone else.
When someone is talking with you about their health, works problems, marital difficulties or whatever else; just say a silent prayer. Without them knowing about it. Hand their situation to God and trust Him to deal with it in His way and time.
When you see on TV a politician, especially one you disagree with, pray for them. Pray that they may find God in their lives and follow Christ's way, truth and light. Also, when you see celebrities on TV deriding and mocking Christianity and promoting a secular way of life; pray for them too that they may experience the love of Christ.
God sends many opportunities in our lives to pray for one another. Whether it is for a relative, a friend, acquaintance or someone you don't know and you see on TV or social media; let us pray for them and their situations. A prayer un-said is an opportunity missed. How do you think God feels about that?
The world is in turmoil right now. Whether on an individual basis, as a family, a nation or globally. There are many needs for prayers.
SUGGESTION: Every day, ask God to send you someone you can help. I did. He took me seriously and now I am inundated with people needing my help.
