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UBI CARITAS ET AMOR. DEUS IBI EST.
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Love
Love is patient; love is kind; love is not envious or boastful or arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice in wrongdoing, but rejoices in the truth. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
Love never ends. And now faith, hope, and love abide, these three; and the greatest of these is love. (Corinthians 13:4 onwards)
This passage from the Bible is read in a lot of wedding ceremonies.
But sadly, when things start to go wrong and difficulties lead to separations and divorce, it is soon forgotten.
It reminds me of the story of the man who said,"my wife introduced me to religion; I never knew what hell was until I married her!"
Mind you, the comment also applies to husbands, not just wives.
Love is a commitment. It is a decision we make, not just a feeling when we first meet someone and get to "like" them and want to be with them.
I guess it is easier to love someone we don't know than someone we have lived with for sometime and got to know their failings.
Love is a vocation. Whether we are married, single, widowed, divorced or separated; love is a decision that we make.
Love is another word for caring. Caring for our partners, our family, our community or whoever. If we are single we can still care for others by the way we behave.
Caring means doing something about it; not just sympathising from a distance and feeling sorry.
The greatest example of love is:
For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believes in Him should not perish, but have everlasting life. John 3:16
I think perhaps we should replace the word "whosoever" with our name. Try it. See how it feels.
For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that if Victor believes in Him he should not perish, but have everlasting life.
We are each loved by God individually. Can we love others as He has loved us?
As for me ... I think love is eating the last piece of pizza to help my wife lose weight.
Monday, 13 April 2026
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Saturday, 14 March 2026
Don't leave it too late
The Living Years
Sunday, 1 March 2026
Praise
Sunday, 22 February 2026
Joy in the Lord
If there’s joy in the Lord let it show my friends
Don’t keep it all to yourself
Don’t ever worry what the crowd might say
Don’t put the Lord on a shelf
Bring Him down take Him round let the joy shine through
How can you fail when the Lord’s with you?
Bring Him down take Him round let the joy shine through
How can you fail when the Lord’s with you?
It’s a sad old world and we’ve got a lot of cares
In debt out of work and we’re scared
But we should be brave for He comes to save
So let’s all spread the happy Word
Bring Him down take Him round let the joy shine through
How can you fail when the Lord’s with you?
Bring Him down take Him round let the joy shine through
How can you fail when the Lord’s with you?
Now the roof sprung a leak and the rains come through
The outlook is as bad as you have known
Well it could be worse and remember this
You don’t bear the burden all alone
Bring Him down take Him round let the joy shine through
How can you fail when the Lord’s with you?
Bring Him down take Him round let the joy shine through
How can you fail when the Lord’s with you?
You’re getting older now and the wrinkles show
Does it matter if you’re beautiful within?
Learn to smile and pray
As you grow old and grey
And lean a little more on Him
Bring Him down take Him round let the joy shine through
How can you fail when the Lord’s with you?
Bring Him down take Him round let the joy shine through
How can you fail when the Lord’s with you?
Bring Him down take Him round let the joy shine through
How can you fail when the Lord’s with you?
Bring Him down take Him round let the joy shine through
How can you fail when the Lord’s with you?
Bring Him down take Him round let the joy shine through
How can you fail when the Lord’s with you?
Thursday, 12 February 2026
Role Model
Whether you like it or not we are all role models.
There is always someone watching us and ready to copy what we do. It could be our children, grand-children, relatives, friends, colleagues or even neighbours or people we do not know.
We really cannot help being a role model. It is not up to us.
What is up to us is whether we are a good or a bad role model.
Do we set a good example by the way we live, what we say, how we behave and how others see us?
Are we the life and soul of the party, or do we brighten up the place by just leaving it?
When we are dead and gone will people talk about who we were or what we have done?
Consider this: Years ago, if you were a Christian people would respect you perhaps, or be polite to you; even if they did not agree with your beliefs. Today, they would most probably ridicule you behind your back and think you're a bit weird in believing in an old man with a beard sitting on a cloud trying to oversee the world.
Being a role model carries a lot of responsibility. Have we by our example led other people to an eternity in Paradise ... or to the other place?
And here is the real test: If you were another person watching you, would you want to copy what you are doing in life and the way you live?
Saturday, 7 February 2026
Friday, 6 February 2026
It's gone bananas
The world has gone bananas. Has it happened where you are?
I went to the shops today and all the bananas they are selling are straight - not a little bent as is traditional. It was the same at the greengrocers and the supermarket. Apparently, they are growing bananas straight these days so they can fit more in the boxes for transport.
It's a little disconcerting. I'm not sure about eating straight bananas; I'm used to the bent shape as I eat it.
This has given a whole new meaning to the saying "Going straight". It used to mean "live an honest life after being a criminal", now it means eating a straight banana.
What do you think? Have you seen a straight banana? Would you eat one or would you feel cautious in any way?
Nothing is as it used to be. Everything is changing.
Friday, 30 January 2026
Frère Jacques Frère Jacques
It was a very hot summer and we were travelling in France on holiday in one of those big motor homes type vehicle. You know the one I mean? A large vehicle that includes a small bedroom, kitchenette and toilet facility. We had hired it as soon as we got to France and we intended to tour the countryside for a week or so in La Belle France!!! Olé.... sorry, we may have taken a wrong turning into Spain.
Anyway ... after our short diversion due to my wife reading the map upside down, and the GPS satellite lady telling me to go a different way, we were back into France and we stopped by the roadside in the middle of nowhere to consult the map properly. Isn't it awful driving with one woman telling you to go one way and the other the exact opposite?
I massaged my side
due to a sharp elbow in my ribs from you know who whilst I was driving.
We'd been stopped for a few minutes when there was a knock at the door
of the motor home. I opened the door and standing there was a monk eating potato chips.
Not a chipmunk ... you've miss heard me ... I said a monk. One of those
religious people who live in a monastery and grow their own vegetables
and make wine and things for tourists to buy. You could tell he was a
monk because he was wearing one of those dark brown Saint Francis of
Assisi habits or uniform.
He must have been taken aback to hear me speak English. He stammered and said, "Excusez-moi
... eh ... veree soree ... Moi no speakee ze English good ... ere in ze
car, (pointing to the car behind him, an old dusty Citroen), zere iz Père Martin ... e iz veree old and e wantz to do ze wee wee veree quicklee ... OK if e go in your toilette s'il vous plaît?"
Being
a very charitable person I quickly replied, "Sorry mate ... the
toilet is broken ... la toilette ... eet iz ze broken ..."
I
thought if I talked to him in a French accent he will understand and go away.
It
was then that I received yet another sharp elbow in the ribs. My wife,
being more charitable said from behind me, "Oui ... oui ... monsieur
..." and opened the door widely to invite Père Martin to wee wee in our toilet.
Out of the car came Père Martin, followed by a nun called Sœur Celeste, (Sister Celeste), and Mère Supérieure Anna, (Mother Superior Anna). The original monk introduced himself as Frère Joseph.
Would you believe it? They all wanted to use the toilet!!!
I have read about being charitable in the Bible, but there is nothing
there about sharing your motor home toilet with complete strangers.
What
if they were not monks and nuns at all? What if they were gangsters
running away from a crime they just committed and dressed like religious
people? What if they wanted to steal our motor home?
I found my old school Catechism in our luggage and I wanted to test
their religiousness by asking them some questions. But yet another sharp
elbow to the ribs put paid to that strategy.
"Oh ... c'est merveilleux," said Joseph the monk, "vous avez un ... eh ... ah au vin!"
I had heard of coq au vin, a French delicacy of cooking chicken with wine, so I thought he was asking me for some wine.
"No
... no ... I have no wine," I said, "no vin ... oui beer ... beer ...
glug glug ... good English beer, not like the watery French stuff you
have over here ... beer?"
"Au vin ... au vin ..." he repeated pointing to our kitchenette.
"Ah ... oven? Yes this is an oven," I said having understood what he was on about.
"Voulez-vous des saucisses?" asked Mother Superior, "saucisses de venaison?"
"Venaison?"
I repeated, "yes ... France is a great Nation ... so is Britain mind
you. Have you ever been to Britain? You know ... God save our gracious
Queen ..."
Mother
Superior ignored me and opened the boot of the Citroen and brought out a
large packet of dry sausages like salami or chorizos
"Saucisses de venaison ..." she said, "c'est vraiment délicieux ..."
As
she offered me her venison sausages the other nun brought out a huge
panier type basket full of food ... French baguette bread, a
variety of French cheeses, a couple of bottles of wine, and a lot of
other goodies fit for a party. The two monks brought out a foldable
table and chairs and they sat down ready for a picnic to which we were
invited.
They
stayed there for about an hour or so, speaking with us in broken
English and French and enjoying their food and wine and our beer ...
although they were not that keen on our black pudding, haggis and
faggots which we had in the fridge.
As we were enjoying this lovely French picnic a police car drew up and
two gendarmes came out. At first I thought perhaps we were parked in the
wrong place, and no picnics were allowed where we were.
The two policemen conversed with the nuns and monks in their local
language. They spoke quickly and I could not understand a word they
said.
"They probably are criminals after all," I whispered to my wife, "we'd better move away!"
Then, without asking for permission or anything, the two policemen
entered our motor home. I tried, as best I could, to speak to the monks
about it. It transpired that the policemen thought the motor home
belonged to the monks and they needed to use the toilet too!
After the policemen left, and we finished the picnic, the monks and nuns thanked us and left on their way.
Moments later I saw a big bull from a nearby field approach us slowly.
We got in the motor home quickly and left, just in case he too wanted to
use the toilet.
The
following day we took a deliberate detour and visited the monks' monastery some twenty miles away and spent the day there visiting.
Oh ... and to return the favour, we used their toilets. I went more than once to make up for the four of them using ours!
Thursday, 29 January 2026
Two Stories Wide
Don't hide in the night
Come out in the sunshine
And we'll be alright
And it's too short to cry
And it's too deep to measure
And it's two stories wide
Which side do you need?
Both sides make you lonely
And make your heart bleed
And it's too short to cry
And it's too deep to measure
And it's two stories wide
And its too short to cry
And its too deep to measure
And its two stories wide
And its too short to cry
And its too deep to measure
And its two stories wide
Tuesday, 27 January 2026
Drum
I really like to beat the drum. The very big drum you carry with you when marching in a band. Great banging sound!
I sang Christmas Carols with the church choir last year. They didn’t like my rendition of “Silent Night” on the big drum.
I also find the big drum helps me tell the time.
When I wake up in the middle of the night and I can’t find my watch I just open the window and bang on my big drum.
Someone is sure to shout “Who’s the idiot banging a drum at three in the morning?”
Here's a recording of me practicing playing the drum.


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